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Personal | November 2, 2022

Choosing Joy

 

I realized something about myself this weekend. When bad things happen, I tend to feel like I need to sit with my pain and grief for a long time, as if to pay homage to it. As if to move on from it would mean I accepted it, or approved of it, or even welcomed it. And to be joyful in the midst would mean that it didn’t hurt as bad as it did. I’d be “fake.”

Yet, as I watched my cousin this weekend react to yet another terrible cancer diagnosis, I realized that those deep feelings I’m getting caught up in are robbing me. Don’t get me wrong, she felt her pain. She shed tears, gave and received big hugs, slept in from emotional exhaustion, and had a few margaritas. She didn’t act as if it wasn’t happening and her pain wasn’t there, but she allowed herself to be open. She was open to God’s presence, even looking for it. This takes strength. It takes work, mindfulness, intentionality, and a perspective shift in faith. Instead of staying sad and looking for someone to blame like I’ve done, she chose to fight for joy, to look for the good in the midst of difficulty. She chose hope. Because of the hope that lives in her, she still came to Round Top for the girl’s weekend anyway. She soaked in the sunsets, she sat with me and told me all the times God showed up for her on the day she got the call and since, she drank the margaritas and made new friends, she bought the new headbands, and she laughed at all the funnies. I’m learning from Kellison.

Today I’m choosing joy, too. I’m thankful for the gift of time and the memories made this past weekend.

 

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Personal | April 22, 2022

New Healthy Habits

I've been thinking about my morning routine and phone habits after reading Atomic Habits by James Clear and Get your Life Back by John Eldredge. I highly recommend both books. I was given Get Your Life Back as a gift (thank you, Kristin), and it has really challenged me in a good way. It pushed me ... Read More

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Around Town, Personal | March 3, 2022

Choosing Hope

Looking at these pictures of us all dressed up reminds me of a quote I read this morning in our bookclub book, “She’s Still There”. @chrystalhurst said, “{It’s} easier to settle for the worst than to hope for His best.” That hit me square between the eyes. How many times have I settled for ... Read More

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Personal | February 22, 2022

Am I the Only One Who Sees This?

What you see in the mirror is not what other people see. What if I told you when I look at my legs in the mirror, I see “chicken legs” because that’s what someone called them in high school. I see dimples because I’ve been tracking the cellulite on the back of my legs, also since high school (that ... Read More

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Favorite Finds, Personal | September 24, 2021

What COVID Taught Me

I learn and find so much during the week working with clients or chatting with people! I want to share it all immediately, but we all know how that goes - head down, looking at the phone and telling people, " Hold on! I just need to finish something real quick!" Ha! Anyway, last week's share was so ... Read More

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